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Thursday, July 28, 2011

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Tuesday, July 26, 2011

Rise and shine.....

It is okay to dream, to dream is to first of all have a vision basically have a plan,
it inspires you it motivates you the fire and desire grows more and more inside
of you, but nothing comes to a dreamer but a dream if he stays asleep,
its time to wake up and rise and shine and make that dream come true, after all reality speaks......



Tammy J

You look so much better when you smile......

I just started my dental procedure whereas the dentist had to remove several teeth from my mouth, in the front at that, well I am so overjoyed with the presence of the Lord that I can't help but to smile, so toothless and all, my soul smiles, my heart smiles, so my face has to smile, besides we look so much better when we smile, its always more welcoming than a frown; Cheeeeeeeeeeez.........

Don't let the devil get you down and attempt to destroy your happiness your peace or anything, God woke you up this morning so you have a reason to smile!

Tuesday, July 19, 2011

You have a dream and you want it to come true, well its up to you make it a reality, sometimes its your inspiration that helps to get the job done, a while ago I thought about all the people who inspired me the most, and I wanted to be a writer, so I began writing to myself how I was inspired and the thanks I would give them if I ever met them, (my inspirations that is) and before you know it I had written a small book! What is your inspiration and what will it help you to do?

Do you believe???


PBP Productions Inc. is in development stage, but I believe it will go far, and thats what we need and that is to believe in ourselves......

Who do you trust?


We all need prayer rather you practice a particular denomination, rather you believe or not, but that great entity we serve as God He blesses, He encourages, He strengthens, He knows that you are strong, He knows that you are beautiful, and He knows that you are worthy, trust in Him, which is another key to success, trust trust trust, trust in yourself to make that move, trust in yourself that you will make the right decisions, trust trust trust.......

Diamond n the ruff.......


Are you a poet, are you a singer, are you a rapper, are you an actor/actress, are you a lawyer, are you a doctor, a you a teacher, are you a good housekeeper/mom? No matter who you are or what your title is you do your job and do it to best of your ability, and know that you deserve to shine, and so therefore you do shine, yes you face struggles and down times, or stress, or things that may discourage you, but you put on that armor to show your strength you get back up and you keep on going/moving ahead, just as a stone recovered from the sands of a deserted beach, polish yourself off and shine for you are a diamond in the ruff......

Wednesday, July 13, 2011

What is the most important letter in the word CONFIDENCE?


The most important letter in the word confidence is I (eye), for it is to see that you are beautiful, to see that you are a strong person, to see that you are unique, to see that you are loved, to see that you are worthy and to say that I will live it, love it and celebrate it everyday!

Tammy J aka The Big Gurl Diva

AKA....

My name is Tamara Jackson aka Tammy J aka The Big Gurl Diva; I'm a woman of many faces, names, duties, personalities, etc. but they all are full of love, love is my motivation so I can be who I be, and I encourage you to do the same, love yourself, love who you are, love what you do and that in itself spells success!

*Tamara Jackson aka Tammy J aka The Big Gurl Diva*

Tuesday, July 12, 2011

Look up.....

If you walk around daily with your head hanging low, you will miss alot of things in life! P.S. look up and smile...


Tamara Jackson

Monday, July 11, 2011

Do unto others......

Today I see lots of folks promoting and selling trying to grow their own business and wealth and I'm not mad at em, but the Bible says do unto others as you'll have done to yourself, well if you extended a hand and helped someone else (support a cause, write a review, comment on a blog, donate a dime or time) theres no telling how much help you will get in return. I love the idea/concept of the new service entitled When you need a hand, 2 hands r not enough sometimes, lol, but part of being or becoming successful comes from helping others succeed, let not this world be of only selfishness and greed!

*Tammy J aka The Big Gurl Diva*

Effective Childhood Games.......

Which games can you recall and relate your future to?


Monkey see monkey do; well as you may know this a game which requires a repeating process, (you do what you see) well let us look at Oprah and Beyonce, and Mary J Blige and know that they have did whatever it took for them to reach their success, and copy....

Red light Yellow light Green light; this game is to make moves and take steps forward while the captain isn't looking, so its a gradual process but continue to move forward taking one step at a time and don't let the captain (hindering/stopping block/catch) you......

There are 2 more that I particularly really love, #1 Simon Says and #2 Captain may I?

Simon Says go and live your dreams, be successful no matter what area in life that shall be,and yes you may, says the captain, lol.....

As we proceed......

While we are climbing to reach that mountain top, don't look down don't look back don't pause don't stop;

We all have a dream as we all have a story; if we don't seek we won't find that never ending story;

Don't give up don't break down and don't you cry, get suited and booted and continue to try;

Walk the walk down that road of ready, ladies hold your heads up stay focused stay steady;

Rather it be for professional or personal, we have been blessed by one who is so merciful;

Now work that work that all that you gat (got), its your time to shine now thats the end of that!




Ladies I won't take no for an answer, and you shouldn't take no for an answer either,you really do owe it to yourself, stop accepting the no you're not beautiful, the no you're not worthy and good enough, no no no, tell yourselves yes yes yes, yes you are pretty, yes you do deserve better, and by God if you believe, yes you shall receive it!!!

A Woman's Touch by Tammy J......

Here you have a poem intended to inspire the doubtful woman, you may have been emotionally ruined, put all your hopes and strength in a man, but you must realize you have strength too and therefore you must have hope in yourself! Not to get it confused though men, this is not intended to promote any kind of chauvinism but to help uplift that broken woman, and besides I have permission from God to do so.....


A Woman's Touch by Tammy J:

Looking deep within inside of me, to find true happiness and where I wanna be;

No diamonds and no money can make me feel, this feeling I've found thats all so real;

Although all of the above would be so nice, but don't allow yourself to be bought please take my advice;

We must first find that happiness from within ourselves, before we can seek it in anyone else;

Yes we all come in various shapes, sizes, and colors, but we're all still the same in one way or another;

We allow our feelings too much to be dictated, we fall carelessly in love to only be manipulated;

Is it real or is it just a dream, that we as women need to have more self esteem;

I've often heard that its a man's world and in its so much, but what would it be without a woman's touch?




The only man that deserves all the praise and glory is God and He strengthens us all and equips us with what we need!

What is your purpose for today?

Believe it or not but we all have purpose, God reveals that to us each day He wakes us up, what is your's for today? Is there something you've wanted to do for a long time, do you want to ride a bike, do you want to learn how to drive, do you want host an event, perhaps a speaking engagement, a book signing, a concert, etc? You have a purpose, let nothing hinder you, God has woke you up for a reason and He makes no mistakes, dreams are dreams, but if you act on them they can become a reality, now that you're woke ask yourself and show what your purpose will be today?

*Tammy J aka The Big Gurl Diva*

Sunday, July 10, 2011

Don't be distracted.....

When trouble arises on every side don't be distracted, when obstacles and adversity stares you in the face don't be distracted, when opposition tries to wear you down don't get distracted, set your minds on what you want, stay focused and fight fight fight until you succeed!


*Tammy J aka The Big Gurl Diva*

Another N word to avoid......

Negative is as negative does, if you doubt yourself then so will others, if you say to yourself no you can't then so will others, if you give up on yourself then so will others! Ever wondered why someone turns their back on you? Because you turn your back on yourself, ever wondered why you don't or won't live your dreams? Possibly because you have lost focus or given up hope, or you simply have negative thoughts about them all together. Its time to get serious and positive about what you want, say no more negativity, because after all negative is as negative does (talk, thinking, actions, etc).....

*Tammy J aka The Big Gurl Diva*

Don't say the N word.......

Don't say the N word, for you will never succeed in life, you will not be capable of seeing your true beauty, you will stop believing in yourself, it will be hard to prosper, doubt will follow you all your days! Don't say No, but say yes, yes you can achieve, yes you are beautiful, yes you have purpose and yes you will prosper! Stop saying that hurtful and disgusting N word and you shall see change!

*Tamara Jackson aka The Big Gurl Diva*

Don't give up......

"Good God morning everybody, I'm on my way to sunday worship/church and I'm ready for my blessing, each of us need some type of healing, be it physical, spiritual, or otherwise! We must prepare ourselves first by believing it can happen, behold joy in your hearts, trust in the Lord, and receive.....

Success comes in more ways than one (financial, health, physical, and so much more) even if you just complete a task such as going to the grocery store, you have succeeded in something and at some point, never be too quick to give up, God can make a way out of no way!

Don't give up but prepare to prosper; I'll see you at the top of the ladder of success!

*Tamara Jackson aka The Big Gurl Diva*

Thursday, July 7, 2011

Practice makes Perfect......

You can't practice anything if you don't believe in it, people say they want to be like Jesus, people want to successful, people want to be healthy, people want to be loved, well for all these things you must believe in them first,
you must believe that Jesus rose, you must believe that you can be successful, believe that you will live healthy, believe that you can and deserve to be loved! For if you believe it you will practice it and as I was told practice makes perfect!

See you at the top of the ladder of success.....


*Tammy J aka The Big Gurl Diva*

Just happy being me.....


I'm just happy being me, after dealing with so many issues that stunted my growth as a person (successfully and otherwise)yes it was a long process overcoming, but dear God I made it, and now I'm happy being me!

When people all around me had doubt and told me I wouldn't amount to much and that I could and would never live out my dreams, well I'm no longer sleep and making my dreams a reality and now I got more of a reason to celebrate, today I celebrate who I am (physically, emotionally, spiritually and all) I am just happy to be me!

When that no good man put his hands on me and over the years it caused me to be shut in, shut down (mentally) and almost give up, I even attempted suicide twice, but God has plans for me, so needless to say the attempts didn't work, but today I celebrate me because I am happy to be me!

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Let Sheedom Ring/The reason I wrote the book!


I dealt with many self esteem issues for a long time and I knew that was something inside of me that needed to get out, so I decided to open up and voice out and write Let Sheedom Ring, sharing my deepest inner thoughts and views and what has helped me to become a changed and successful person(physically,spiritually, emotionally and all), inside you will find hardhitting poetry, words of encouragement, inspiration and more, I dedicate this motivational piece/anthology as a tribute to womanhood, (we all deserve to be treated as queens and we are beautiful no matter what)!
You may view more details about this book or even purchase a copy @ http://xlibris.com/LetSheedomRing.html, or visit Amazon.com or BarnesandNoble.com, thank you........

Hood Divas/The reason I wrote the book!


I wrote this book Hood Divas to demonstrate and point out that women all over can be successful despite their backgrounds, (socially and otherwise), this book is about 3 women from urban communities who have defeated statistics and chosen not to be bound by their circumstances and overcame their obstacles and achieved their goals, inside you will read details about how they endured manipulation, envy, infidelity and more, they have attained and maintained success despite them being from the hood and they do it with confidence and class which earns them the title of being divas........